Posting your problems on social media. Like, wtf? Do you want everyone to go against your partner? Nothing ever comes good out of it and it’s childish.
Too hot to handle.
Intensity. Extremely intense relationships flame out.
Rules are rules!
When they’re in love in the first week and start making rules and promises about what they both can and can not do because they’re “so devoted.”
You have to be flexible in relationships.
I’ve noticed that if one partner is really inconsiderate over minor things, they’re not into it, and it’s doomed. Like, they never lift a finger to help the other person with even small things — won’t hold the door open, won’t move to make room on the couch, won’t adjust their schedule five minutes either way for anything. Doomed.
Generally, you want to like the person you love.
Science tells us: contemptif you see this on the face of either, towards the other, it’s a 95% certainty it won’t last.
Someone needs to sit this sibling down and have a nice, honest talk.
You would think attempted murder with a gun would be a good indicator… and yet my sibling wants to stay with that crazy dingbat.